friend: i’m getting mcdonalds you want anything?
me: i don’t have money
friend: it’s all good, i’ll pay
@Harry_Styles: Am I the only person who doesn’t floss while driving?!
Ellie and Carl + Rory and Amy (Up + Doctor Who)
And then the sad realization that they’re even more alike now.
INHUMAN WAILS OF PAIN AND SUFFERING
I feel that Meryl Streep’s acting in “The Devil Wears Prada” was a good representation of how I feel in school:
when in the hallways:
when someone makes a big deal out of a poor test grade:
when I’m done presenting something in class and it gets awkwardly silent:
when I get a poor grade on a test:
when someone says something incredibly stupid:
when someone keeps asking me for the answers on homework or tests:
IF YOU ARE A FRESHMAN IN HIGH SCHOOL RIGHT NOW I ADVISE YOU TO DO YOUR BEST SERIOUSLY I THOUGHT HIGH SCHOOL WAS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN AND I DIDN’T DO SHIT AND NOW MY C’S ON MY FRESHMAN REPORT CARDS ARE KILLING ME IN MY COLLEGE APPS AND I WISH SOMEONE HAD TOLD ME TO DO BETTER SO PLEASE LISTEN TO ME IF YOU ARE A FRESHMAN GOOD GRADES ARE COOL
how do you feel after sending me a message like this? do you feel happy, do you think you are cool? do you feel content about yourself? are you exited, sitting there waiting for my reply? did your heart race when you pressed the anonymous button?
you are nothing but a weak piece of shit, and i bet you have a lot of people telling you that already - otherwise you wouldn’t feel the need to try to inslut STRANGERS you know NOTHING about on the INTERNET ?!?
why are you even coming after me?
because i have a blog that people like?
because i post good edits?
because i have lots of friends here on tumblr?
because of the fact that i am both prettier and a nicer person than you will ever be in your shitty life? because i can assure you that that is the case.
i am not going to post your ip number and your location/name this time, because you are a sad sad and pathetic person. i don’t know what the damage is with you, but it clearly is something. maybe you are sick and don’t know what you are doing. please be fucking ashamed of yourself.
Um…sorry, I just think that last part wasn’t a good way to answer. I mean, people who usually send hate on anon are insecure about themselves. This person clearly is and you telling her that she is a worthless ugly piece of shit (maybe not in and these exact words but the meaning behind it remains the same) doesn’t make you any better. Has it occured to you that this person is maybe sick? That maybe you’re intimidating and she knows you’re nicer and prettier than she ever will be and that makes her so sad that she desperately needs you to feel the same? It’s vital for her. And she feels relieved the moment she hits the “send” button but she also know how confident you are she knows you won’t give a flying fuck about it and that hurts her even more.
That person needs help, not blaming.
I’m just saying.
are you serious? how dare you reblogging this and adding your “expert comment”?
you, just like this anon sending me disgusting and hateful messages, know absolutely NOTHING about me or my life. you know nothing about what i’ve been through in life, and i have absolutely no obligation to tell people that JUST so that they won’t send me hate. i shouldn’t need to, and i won’t do it. I demand respect just like everyone else.
i absolutely do NOT care if this person are insecure about themselves or not. they have NO RIGHT to come to me and insult me for absolutely no reason. they are still a piece of shit, they are still a patethic person, they are still a sad person who are SICK.
i do NOT care if I’m intimidating her/him, and that “she knows you’re nicer and prettier than she ever will be and that makes her so sad that she desperately needs you to feel the same?”. I am not some kind of waste basket for sick people to use to feel better about themselves, believe it or not but I am a person too. Why should it be ok for this person to send me hate just because they’re jealous of me or unhappy with her/his own life? This is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever read.
I am not some kind of outlet for people who need to SEND HATE to FEEL RELIEVED ABOUT THEMSELVES. How am I supposed to even feel like I should care about people who are rude to me or insulting me? Should I just accept the fact that people are being disrespectful to me, because of my confidence or my life? What?? You gotta be fucking kidding me.
I don’t care what your problem is or WHY YOU THINK YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE AN ASSHOLE TO OTHER PEOPLE, but if you press the anonymous button and let your anger and disappointment out on other people you ARE a piece of unworthy and ugly shit, and that is a fact.
that person needs to learn how to respect other people, and how to not be an asshole.
do everyone a favor and stop “just saying”.
Look. I’m sorry, the last thing I wanted to do was sounding mean but I did write this at 2 a.m in the morning, particularly tired after a quit stressful shift at my job, so I apologise because it did come out bitchy. You’re right, I don’t know anything about your life, and you don’t know anything about mine and we both don’t know anything about that anon’s life. But the thing is, if you lower yourself to the level of someone who’s being disrespectuful to you by being just as an asshole as he was to you, then honestly, it doesn’t make you any better. You don’t have to care about the person’s problem and you can reply to hate comments but not by calling names, it’s never a good call. That’s exactly what that person wants: either you reacting and therefore giving her attention, either having confirmation about she thinks about her own self. Either way, you’re giving them what they want. I personnaly just chose to ignore it. And this comes from someone who’s been bullied for 7 fucking years. People will say crap, they always do. But the only way to actually earn respect is controlling yourself enough not to call someone an unworthy piece of shit because nobody (excpet Hitler and some other scumbags) deserves to be called that. Trust me, I’m talking out of experience. Especially not some immature teenager who probably pines over Justin Bieber and thinks Lana is a pop singer.
She’s not worth your attention!
I don’t mean to tell you what to do I just think you’re much better than this.
i still don’t see your point? why do you continue to protect and speak up for people who send anonymous hate to innocent people and at the same time try to call me out on something that is not even called for? i have never attacked someone and i don’t make any posts that are meant to upset other people. still people attack me personally and i should just accept that, by following your advice?
i have been bullied too, including being sent death threats over texts, having my whole life being exploited and mocked on the internet by people who needed to “relieve themselves” and use me as a waste basket, so i dont give much about your experiences. i am way too old and i’ve been through way too much to have people walking all over me, and i don’t appreciate your views on this at all since it don’t even have anything to do with you. take your opinions somewhere else and stop supporting people on sending hate.
you have a lot of guts talking above my head about how people always will talk shit and how the high road is the way to go, at the same time as you try to lower me to the same level as this person sending me hate???
one is never an asshole for reacting to people treating you bad, it should be the natural reaction and you should not have to feel bad about it. reacting to this does not make me anything like this anon, and i don’t see why you are trying to make it seem like it? “the only way to actually earn respect is controlling yourself enough” is the most bullshit i’ve ever read. i should not have to EARN RESPECT TO PREVENT THEM FROM BEING HATEFUL TOWARDS ME, and my way of “controlling myself” has absolutely nothing to do with it. i choose to answer that message and i don’t get why you couldn’t just stay in your lane and let me do it.
as i said before: i do NOT care what the anons problem is. if you think its OK to hurt other people to feel better about yourself, YOU ARE a piece of fucking shit and deserves to be called it. end of story. if you send anon hate you are a sad and pathetic person and i hope you know it deep in your soul yourself.
i dont see you getting any hate on your blog, but if you do please handle it in your way and stay out of how i rather handle the hateful messages attacking me personally every. fucking. week.
I definitely didn’t mean it like that when I said that “the only way to earn respect is to control yourself”. Wow. Now that I re-read it, it doesn’t match my thoughts at all. It’s just…English isn’t my mothertongue so I find it hard expressing myself.
What I’m trying to say, basically, is that you’re too fly to fucking give a shit about those kind of anons. And that people need to realise that people who send hate are mentally deranged and need help.
If you still don’t get my point, then I’m sorry I’m not gonna bother you anymore.